I went back to work yesterday, and it was still work...and I was reminded of the hardest thing about death - the fact that everything else just keeps going. I was hoping someone would cancel all of the upcoming holidays and my upcoming birthday...but it looks like we're still on.
Sigh.
For those of you that don't know the history, my mom and dad divorced when I was 5 or 6 years old. I've remained close to my dad despite the efforts of my mom, grandmother, aunt and other women in the family who thought he should be punished forever and ever and ever. Anyway, I don't want to get into that now...but I will tell you that I also love my stepfather very much, and he's done an excellent job of being a father, grandfather and friend over the 33 years that he and my mom were married. I have no idea how he survived me as a teenager, but he deserves a medal for that alone.
So, back to my dad...just when I thought yesterday was probably the worst Monday I had ever had - I found out it was Bill Markham Day! Way to go, Daddy! I'm so proud of you. Here's the video of what happened on the news live yesterday. You might notice a similarity or two. Those of you who went on and on at the funeral about how much I look like my mom might be changing your mind now that you see my dad...as a child, every single time I saw my grandmother she would say, "You are Bill Markham made over."
He's cute, isn't he? ;)
That is so neat! Thanks for sharing!
It is kind of neat to get an inside peek into "their world".
Posted by: b | November 25, 2008 at 08:55 AM
i see your dad had to put some dress pants on... and was not able to keep his cargo shorts on with the tie and coat *grin*
that was very sweet!!!!
Posted by: oh-no | November 25, 2008 at 09:09 AM
aw, your dad is so cute!! Congrats to him!! And yeah, you do really really look like your dad. Love the new banner, too.
I know what we went through with Cole is nothing like losing a parent but I do remember that feeling - like how in the world did things just continue when my world just stopped!! You're still in my prayers - just praying that you get through each day with grace!!
Posted by: lisa tanner | November 25, 2008 at 09:16 AM
Mandy,
"You ARE Bill Markham made over." That is so cool!!
Posted by: Kathy Green | November 25, 2008 at 09:19 AM
Oh how cool! I was laughing at the part about his jackets and ties... so cute. Way to go, Mandy's dad!!
(I'm glad this little happy happened this week. Thinking of you girly!)
Posted by: virginia | November 25, 2008 at 09:19 AM
super cool!! he looks great!
Posted by: gabbe | November 25, 2008 at 11:15 AM
Yes, he is cute, but you're cuter. Like Virginia said, I'm glad this happened this week. I'm thinking about you and praying for you and your family.
Posted by: Deborah | November 25, 2008 at 04:23 PM
sweet! glad there's something to celebrate, mija -- be well...
Posted by: sonya | November 25, 2008 at 04:50 PM
What a great tribute to Bill! His own holiday...and a Rolex!
Posted by: PJ | November 25, 2008 at 05:57 PM
What a great tribute! Yes, I guess I have to admit you look like both of them :) Please know that you continue to be in my prayers. Tracy
Posted by: Tracy | November 25, 2008 at 07:33 PM
you do look like your dady. :) how great for him to have that day.
Posted by: Amy N. | November 25, 2008 at 07:47 PM
Very handsome! What a great honor for him. hugs and kisses to you!
Posted by: lucy | November 25, 2008 at 10:49 PM